While you wan to be H friend to your child, sharing happy stories and sad moments such friendship does not include You should remain the captain of the ship, advise psychologists (心理学家). You may listen to the voices of the crew, but it's up to you to set the course. Psychologist Diana Baumrind has identified three types of parents: permissive autocratic and authoritative. If a 13 year-old child wants to attend a Saturday. night party a permissive parent might say, "OK but try not to stay out too late." Permissive parents are either not very caring to their kids or try to win them over by allowing them full freedom. An parent might respond, "No, you're too young for that. End of discussion. An autocratic parent tells children exactly what they must do or how they must behave. Children can not with an autocratic parent. The authoritative parent considers the child' viewpoint and then decides: "You know our rule about weekends. We agree on a ten o'clock time limit You can go to the party if you can be home by then." Kids prefer the authoritative style, which gives them space but also sets firm limits Baumrind's studies show that parents who allow their freedom with responsibility within disciplinary limits. have more influence than either autocratic or permissive parents. By not giving specific or too strict instructions about everything, they allow the important points to show above the useless talks. Coming down hard on every minor detail can make the situation out of control When your son lets his hair grow to his shoulders or your daughter experiments with black nail polish accept the appearance as a harmless fashion. If, however, he or she asks to attend a party where you suspect drugs might be used put your foot down and keep it there. I. What is the main idea of the first paragraph?A. Parents' friendship means a lot to their kids.B. Parents should give kids space but set firm limits.C. The captain of a ship should be strict with his crew.D. Parents should share happiness and sadness with their kids. 2. Which of the following describes the way that a permissive parent deals with their child?A. Never allowing the child to go out at night.B. Never letting the child stay out too late.C. Showing their great concern for the child's safety.D. Giving the child total freedom without strict disciplines.3. In a family with authoritative parents children ______.A. enjoy freedom with reasonable restrictionB. do whatever their parents ask them to doC. discuss everything with their parentsD. go back home before 10 o'clock every night.
While you wan to be H friend to your child, sharing happy stories and sad moments such friendship does not include You should remain the captain of the ship, advise psychologists (心理学家). You may listen to the voices of the crew, but it's up to you to set the course.
Psychologist Diana Baumrind has identified three types of parents: permissive autocratic and authoritative.
If a 13 year-old child wants to attend a Saturday. night party a permissive parent might say, "OK but try not to stay out too late." Permissive parents are either not very caring to their kids or try to win them over by allowing them full freedom. An parent might respond, "No, you're too young for that. End of discussion. An autocratic parent tells children exactly what they must do or how they must behave. Children can not with an autocratic parent. The authoritative parent considers the child' viewpoint and then decides: "You know our rule about weekends. We agree on a ten o'clock time limit You can go to the party if you can be home by then." Kids prefer the authoritative style, which gives them space but also sets firm limits Baumrind's studies show that parents who allow their freedom with responsibility within disciplinary limits. have more influence than either autocratic or permissive parents. By not giving specific or too strict instructions about everything, they allow the important points to show above the useless talks. Coming down hard on every minor detail can make the situation out of control When your son lets his hair grow to his shoulders or your daughter experiments with black nail polish accept the appearance as a harmless fashion. If, however, he or she asks to attend a party where you suspect drugs might be used put your foot down and keep it there.
I. What is the main idea of the first paragraph?
A. Parents' friendship means a lot to their kids.
B. Parents should give kids space but set firm limits.
C. The captain of a ship should be strict with his crew.
D. Parents should share happiness and sadness with their kids.
2. Which of the following describes the way that a permissive parent deals with their child?
A. Never allowing the child to go out at night.
B. Never letting the child stay out too late.
C. Showing their great concern for the child's safety.
D. Giving the child total freedom without strict disciplines.
3. In a family with authoritative parents children ______.
A. enjoy freedom with reasonable restriction
B. do whatever their parents ask them to do
C. discuss everything with their parents
D. go back home before 10 o'clock every night.
题目解答
答案
1.B
2.D
3.A
解析
考查要点：本题主要考查学生对文章主旨、细节理解及推理判断能力的掌握。需要结合上下文，准确识别不同 parenting styles 的特点，并理解作者的核心观点。
解题思路：
- 第一题：通过分析首段核心句 "You should remain the captain of the ship"，明确文章强调父母需在给予孩子自由的同时设定合理限制。
- 第二题：根据 Baumrind 对 permissive parents 的定义（"allowing them full freedom"），直接对应选项。
- 第三题：通过权威型父母的典型特征（"consider the child's viewpoint" + "firm limits"）推断孩子行为模式。
破题关键：抓住每段核心句，区分三种 parenting styles 的本质差异（permissive: 放任；autocratic: 专制；authoritative: 平衡自由与规则）。
第1题
核心句定位：首段末句 "You may listen to the voices of the crew, but it's up to you to set the course."
关键对比：选项 B（给予空间+设定限制）与选项 A（强调友谊）和 D（分享情感）的差异在于是否涉及"限制"。文章明确指出父母需作为决策者，因此选 B。
第2题
定义匹配：文中描述 permissive parents 的典型行为是 "try not to stay out too late"（允许晚归），本质是 "full freedom"（选项 D）。选项 C（关心安全）与 autocratic parents 的特征混淆。
第3题
特征推断：权威型父母既考虑孩子观点（"You can go to the party"）又设定截止时间（"10 o'clock limit"），说明孩子在合理限制下享有自由（选项 A）。选项 D 是具体例子，非普遍结论。