Conflict is something we often think of as negative. It brings to mind arguing and anger. In reality, conflict is a normal part of life. It occurs when there are different points of view and different opinions on how things should be done. It's impossible to go through life without experiencing conflict. The important thing is how we handle and resolve our differences. Here are some tips to end the war. Be aware of your emotions. In any situation, the point where we stop being logical about resolving conflict is when our emotions become engaged. If you're feeling angry, frustrated or afraid, take a Parent Time Out. If you choose to take a few moments to catch your breath or regain your composure (冷静), it does not mean your child "wins." It simply means you are choosing to de-escalate a situation that is becoming emotionally charged. Think of it as resolving, not winning. Fights are "won." Conflict is "resolved." Resolving conflict doesn't necessarily mean you will be "right" or "wrong." It may mean agreeing to disagree, depending on the issue. Also, help your child recognize that resolving conflict doesn't mean he or she will get what they want. It might mean understanding that sometimes rules are rules and that's just the way it is. What does the author think of conflict? A. It happens more often at home.B. It is wrong and negative.C. It can actually be avoided.D. It is rather normal in our life.

Conflict is something we often think of as negative. It brings to mind arguing and anger. In reality, conflict is a normal part of life. It occurs when there are different points of view and different opinions on how things should be done. It's impossible to go through life without experiencing conflict. The important thing is how we handle and resolve our differences.

Here are some tips to end the war. Be aware of your emotions. In any situation, the point where we stop being logical about resolving conflict is when our emotions become engaged. If you're feeling angry, frustrated or afraid, take a Parent Time Out. If you choose to take a few moments to catch your breath or regain your composure (冷静), it does not mean your child "wins." It simply means you are choosing to de-escalate a situation that is becoming emotionally charged.

Think of it as resolving, not winning. Fights are "won." Conflict is "resolved." Resolving conflict doesn't necessarily mean you will be "right" or "wrong." It may mean agreeing to disagree, depending on the issue. Also, help your child recognize that resolving conflict doesn't mean he or she will get what they want. It might mean understanding that sometimes rules are rules and that's just the way it is.

What does the author think of conflict?

• A. It happens more often at home.
• B. It is wrong and negative.
• C. It can actually be avoided.
• D. It is rather normal in our life.