题目
I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention, and especially if it’s given from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but listen to them. Just take them Just listen to what they’re saying and care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it. Most of us don’t value ourselves or our love enough to know this. It has taken me a long time to believe in the power of the simply saying “I’m so sorry” when someone is in pain, and meaning it. One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story, people often interrupted to tell her that they had once had something just like that happen to them. Eventually she stopped talking to most people. She was just too lonely. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know that we care. Many people with cancer can talk about the relief of having someone just listen. I have ever learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(纸巾), until I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them down, to take them out of their experience of sadness and grief. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them. 【小题1】The author intends to tell us . A．the art of listening B．the importance of listening to others C．how to keep a talk going on D．how to ease a patient’s pain 【小题2】In the last paragraph, the author suggests that if a person is crying, you should . A．try to give him some comfort B．stop him from crying C．cry with him D．just keep listening to his crying 【小题3】From the passage we can know that the author is probably a . A．teacher B．patient C．speaker D．doctor 【小题4】What would be the best title for the passage? A．care about it B．Just listen C．Don’t interrupt D．Mean it
I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention, and especially if it’s given from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but listen to them. Just take them Just listen to what they’re saying and care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it. Most of us don’t value ourselves or our love enough to know this. It has taken me a long time to believe in the power of the simply saying “I’m so sorry” when someone is in pain, and meaning it.
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story, people often interrupted to tell her that they had once had something just like that happen to them. Eventually she stopped talking to most people. She was just too lonely. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know that we care. Many people with cancer can talk about the relief of having someone just listen.
I have ever learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(纸巾), until I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them down, to take them out of their experience of sadness and grief. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
【小题1】The author intends to tell us .
【小题2】In the last paragraph, the author suggests that if a person is crying, you should .
【小题3】From the passage we can know that the author is probably a .
【小题4】What would be the best title for the passage?
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story, people often interrupted to tell her that they had once had something just like that happen to them. Eventually she stopped talking to most people. She was just too lonely. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know that we care. Many people with cancer can talk about the relief of having someone just listen.
I have ever learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(纸巾), until I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them down, to take them out of their experience of sadness and grief. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
【小题1】The author intends to tell us .
| A．the art of listening |
| B．the importance of listening to others |
| C．how to keep a talk going on |
| D．how to ease a patient’s pain |
| A．try to give him some comfort |
| B．stop him from crying |
| C．cry with him |
| D．just keep listening to his crying |
| A．teacher |
| B．patient |
| C．speaker |
| D．doctor |
| A．care about it |
| B．Just listen |
| C．Don’t interrupt |
| D．Mean it |
题目解答
答案
【答案】
【小题1】B
【小题2】D
【小题3】D
【小题4】B
【小题1】B
【小题2】D
【小题3】D
【小题4】B
解析
步骤 1：理解文章主旨
文章主要讲述了倾听的重要性，以及倾听他人时如何给予他们关注和理解。作者通过自己的经历和患者的例子，强调了倾听在人际交往中的重要性。
步骤 2：分析问题1
问题1询问作者意图。根据文章主旨，作者主要强调倾听的重要性，因此选项B（the importance of listening to others）最符合。
步骤 3：分析问题2
问题2询问作者在最后一段中建议如何应对哭泣的人。根据最后一段，作者建议只是倾听，因此选项D（just keep listening to his crying）最符合。
步骤 4：分析问题3
问题3询问作者的职业。根据文章内容，作者提到自己的患者，因此选项D（doctor）最符合。
步骤 5：分析问题4
问题4询问文章的最佳标题。根据文章主旨，倾听是文章的核心，因此选项B（Just listen）最符合。
文章主要讲述了倾听的重要性，以及倾听他人时如何给予他们关注和理解。作者通过自己的经历和患者的例子，强调了倾听在人际交往中的重要性。
步骤 2：分析问题1
问题1询问作者意图。根据文章主旨，作者主要强调倾听的重要性，因此选项B（the importance of listening to others）最符合。
步骤 3：分析问题2
问题2询问作者在最后一段中建议如何应对哭泣的人。根据最后一段，作者建议只是倾听，因此选项D（just keep listening to his crying）最符合。
步骤 4：分析问题3
问题3询问作者的职业。根据文章内容，作者提到自己的患者，因此选项D（doctor）最符合。
步骤 5：分析问题4
问题4询问文章的最佳标题。根据文章主旨，倾听是文章的核心，因此选项B（Just listen）最符合。