Included［听力原文］Self-image is the picture you have of yourself, the sort of person you believe you are.______in your self-image are the categories in which you place yourself, the roles you play, and other______descriptors you use to identify yourself . If you tell an acquaintance you are a grandfather who recently lost his wife and who does______work on weekends, several elements of your self-image are______the roles of grandparent, widower, and conscientious citizen.But self-image is more than how you picture yourself；it also involves how others see you. Three types of feedback from others are______how they see us: confirmation, rejection, and disconfirmation. Confirmation occurs when others treat you in a manner______with who you believe you are. You believe you have leadership abilities and your boss puts you______a new work team. On the other hand, rejection occurs when others treat you in a manner that is inconsistent with your self-definition. Pierre Salinger was appointed senator from California but______lost his first election. He thought he was a good public official, but the voters obviously thought otherwise—their vote was inconsistent with his self-concept. The third type of feedback is disconfirmation, which occurs when others fail to______to your notion of self by responding neutrally. A student writes what he thinks is an excellent composition, but the teacher writes no encouraging remarks. Rather than relying on how others______you, consider how you identify yourself . The way in which you identify yourself is the best reflection of your self-image .［.